Mike,
I don't think she reads these forums. But she knows what I am gunning for!! In fairness, she's been sharing her bonuses with me for years! She's in sales, and when she wins stuff, I usually benefit!
Tac - my sister's wedding is non-negotiable!! Never a question we were going to go to that! The wedding that looks like it is very questionable is a friends in california. My sister's getting married in DC, about 2 hours drive.
Art - It would never cross her mind to throw me a bone or a boxcar. One of the few times it happened, it was because the boxcar said "Pittsburgh Steelers". Its not that she thinks the trains are a waste of time, but that there are more important things to be spending our $$ on. Sometimes I agree.
Thanks again to all of your input!
Mark